I’m In Love With Myself and Quite Possibly a Tranny

What it all boils down to in the game of life is self-love.

You should love yourself first and foremost.


“Where there is love, there is life.” – Gandhi

A) I am who I am and I know what I want. If I cannot have what I want and know I deserve, I should just quite possibly walk away. As much as it pains me to admit, I know that things happen for a reason. If I’m meant to be in a certain place, then there I will stand, dance, prance, whatever the heck I’ll be doing in that brief moment. (And I say brief, because despite however monumental the situation may seem in that moment, it is but fleeting.) Before you know it, it will be 3 months, 6 months, a year, or even a whole decade that has passed and that “moment in time”, may or may not seem as grand or as important as it once was.

(Unless, of course, you foster and nurture it.  If you give that person, that thing, that whatever-it-is that makes that moment important, your patience and time, it may never be brief. In fact, it can be never-ending. Now, that can be  good or bad depending on how one sees it.) Do you take that experience for what it is? Or do you try to make it into more than what you think it can be? If you know what you want, then I’m sure you have a great answer to that question.

B) No one can make you happier than you. Simple as that. You can’t control who comes and goes from your life, but you can control how you feel and act when they are there. You can stop yourself from feeling certain emotions or you can embrace them. At the end of the day, the only one who knows the worth of any one experience that you allowed yourself to travel is, well, you. It shouldn’t be any more complicated or bizarre as that.

C) When advice is dispensed, know that the people who give a crap in your life just don’t want to see you hurt. (And for that, one should be grateful and appreciative of such kind gestures.) So take it with a grain of salt and listen to what they have to say. You may surprise yourself and see it from the other countless sides they spin. Um, however, if your mind is befuddled, this may only serve to make you more confused. Or it could help you streamline your thought process and focus on what the most primary issues are at hand and you can then be firm in your decisions……. Er, what I really mean to say is that: Yes, I am listening to what you’re telling me. And also, yes, I will definitely think about it.

But just to let you know, at the root of it all, I’m going with my gut instinct. It’s telling me to jump with my eyes wide open. And if I shed a few tears going down, so what??


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